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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 12:20

How does one succeed in life?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If a guy is attracting a bunch of what he believes to be "ugly" women, is he crushing the dating game?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Apple’s Craig Federighi on the long road to the iPad’s Mac-like multitasking - Ars Technica

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Libtards argue Obama deported more people than Trump, but if that were true why weren't they comparing Obama to Idi Amin?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Can the right person make a narc want to change their ways? Is love that powerful? Has anyone seen this or experience it?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why do liberals think same-sex marriage is alright? The Bible makes it very clear that it's not alright to be gay, why can't liberals understand that?

Procrastinates a lot.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Trump is shot, tackled by SS agents, yet then stands, defiant, with fist high, and 52 hours later, walks into the Republican Convention to thunderous applause. Is there anything that can stop this man, who loves his country? Does he get your vote?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Have you ever had your crush reject you, and then later you all dated and married?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

What are some ways to cope with paranoid thoughts about being gangstalked or targeted individuals?

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can you name a song with the word 'why' in it?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Ask yourself:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.